如果當我們碰到一些殘疾人，無論他們是瞎子或者是聾子，或者是其他的，我們都不要直接說出來，不然會冒犯到別人。誰也不想讓人把自己的缺陷表露無疑。那么，我們在說話的時候就要委婉一些，要理解他人的感受,來和小編一起了解一下如何委婉的說話吧!

　　成浩在北京的ABC美國公司工作，下班后跟美國同事Ak一起往外走。

　　(Office ambience)

　　CH：Hi Ak. 碰上你太好了!

　　A: I haven't seen you all day. Is there something on your mind?

　　CH: 你還記得不久前，我們那兒來了個坐輪椅的新同事嗎?

　　A: Yes, and we talked about your being uncomfortable around her because you weren't sure what to do.

　　CH: 現在好多了，我們已經成了好朋友。要是我什么地方做得不得體，她會直截了當地告訴我。

　　A: What do you mean?

　　CH: 比如說那天，我們一起聊天，她就很客氣地告訴我，不應該把她的輪椅當家具，倚在上面。

　　A: It soun ds as if you are handling this issue well.

　　CH: 可是，有時候遇到其它handicapped的人，我還是有點兒不知所措。

　　A: First of all, you shouldn't refer to those people as handicapped. That is something of an old-fashioned term that is demeaning to many.

　　CH: 不說handicapped殘疾人，那要怎么說呢?

　　A: Refer to these employees as having a disability. It shows more respect.

　　CH: 這么說是不是太籠統了?別人會問，是什么樣的殘疾。比如說，我們辦公室的Mary就是個聾子。

　　A: If someone asks you what kind of disability, your response is not "She's deaf." Instead you say, "She has a hearing impairment or a hearing problem.

　　CH: 聽力有障礙?那不就是聾子嘛!這不是一回事嗎?

　　A: I'll explain it tomorrow. I have to meet some friends for dinner now.

　　C: 那好，明天見。

　　******

　　第二天在辦公室。

　　CH: Hi Ak, 昨天你說，不應該說Mary聾子，應該說Mary聽力有缺陷。這是為什么?

　　A: Because then you are describing her by her disability. If she had a disease, you wouldn't identify her by that. For example, if she had measles, you wouldn't say, "She's measles."

　　CH: 這倒也是。那除了耳朵聾要說聽力有缺陷，其它身體殘礙是不是也不能直說呢?

　　A: Nowadays, you wouldn't say that a person is blind today. You would use the term visually impaired to describe the person.

　　CH: 不說盲人，要說視力有缺陷。要是瘸子呢?

　　A: Just say that he has a disability.

　　CH: 看來，在這方面，我還真得注意，否則一不小心就會冒犯別人。Ak, 你能再重復一下嗎?

　　A: Sure. We say visually-impaired, not blind. It's hearing-impaired, and not deaf. Use person with a disability rather than crippled, and person who uses a wheelchair, rather than wheelchair bound.